I received an email from an old friend, a wise friend. He threw a few questions out and urged me to answer them....It's come to my attention that I keep a serious wall up around myself and it seems that I have been like this through all my relationships not just current one.
I will directly quote from his email:
"Does he treat you good? (and I dont mean take you places and spend money on you)
Does he treat your son good? (and again I dont mean by buying him things)
Does he talk to you? (and I dont mean about the weather)
Does he have the values and ethics that you would like to see in your son when he grows up? (if you cant say yes to this, then none of the other ones matter)
oh and Does your mom like him, because I know she has excellent taste... I should know."
So this raises a lot of questions in my mind. Reason being....I don't know if I can answer yes to all of the questions. I mean I don't think I would flat out answer no, but I don't know if I could answer yes either....Isn't that bad?? That I DON'T KNOW??????!!!!
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To be honest.....not sure if I can answer YES to ALL of those questions about my own husband. But ya know? NO ONE IS PERFECT.... BUT...there is someone PERFECTLY made just for YOU. God made him...
I didnt wait on THE ONE for me... and me and Nick had to really struggle to be where we are now... still struggle here and there.... God blesses those who wait on HIM.
Bless your thoughts.....
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